Always end on a high note: I know sometimes you want to rip your entire team to shreds. I've been there. I've also held some meetings I wish I never did. Heres how to make sure that no matter how bad it gets, you end your meeting on a high note and why:
Don't ever end your meeting on a down note. It sets the stage for the day. Unfortunately, negative energy lasts longer than positive energy, so coming back from a down meeting is tough. I know sometimes your entire store f'd up and you can absolutely tell them when this happens. You must always figure out a way to turn your meeting towards a positive future before its over or you can do serious damage. People are fragile. All of us have something wrong in our lives most of the time. Putting people down purposely and not lifting them up and telling them its all going to be ok and how its all going to be ok as their leader, is just wrong. It really is just plain wrong. Most of us have done it, we always know shortly afterwards when that feeling creeps in. Just don't ever do it!
OK Phil, I get I should never do it, but how?
Heres my trick: It fits into your structure. Its the last thing you do. At the end of every meeting, no matter what, you have a huddle. The old school huddle was where we all put our hands in and recited something bad ass to kick off the day. The social distanced huddle may look different but same concept. Just like a football team before the game. Create a chant!
I want to add a note on the stuff that may sound corny, hell, it may be corny. I remember being at a restaurant once and I watched them make the whole staff sing and it seemed embarrassing to me. If you know what I'm taking about, you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, well this isn't that! Its not. Ever see the bell rings at Harley? This is that! Some people may still not like it, once you start dancing it becomes fun! Just do it! I promise you and your team will be thankful you did!